{"id":10397,"date":"2017-10-03T12:00:35","date_gmt":"2017-10-03T18:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pwgnm.wordpress.com\/?p=10397"},"modified":"2020-06-26T16:49:15","modified_gmt":"2020-06-26T16:49:15","slug":"registry-or-money-tree-the-pros-cons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weddingcollectivenm.com\/blog\/2017\/10\/03\/registry-or-money-tree-the-pros-cons\/","title":{"rendered":"Registry or Money Tree? The Pros + Cons"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.perfectweddingguide.com\/location\/new-mexico\/albuquerque\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">plan your wedding<\/a>, you may be wondering whether you should create a registry or ask for money. While both options are beneficial in their own way, the benefits of one far outweigh the other. In fact, in my own experience, the registry proved to be a waste. To help you figure out which option is best for you, we\u2019ve come up with a few pros and cons of registries and money trees. At the end of the day, however, it all comes down to what you really want.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0472_dh5a5433.jpg\" data-lightbox=\"gal[10397]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9586\" src=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0472_dh5a5433.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"656\" height=\"438\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align:center;\">The REGISTRY<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Con:<\/strong> You may not know what style of d\u00e9cor you want for your house, so registering for random stuff can make your new home together feel cluttered. *Tip for New Wives: Remember, your new home also belongs to your husband so you want to make sure to choose things you both agree on and that he would feel comfortable living with. Some men may not care, but most aren\u2019t going to feel comfortable with pink and white shabby chic everything.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Con:<\/strong> Chances are, you will register for a bunch of trendy items that in a few years will make your house look outdated. *Tip: If you decide to go with a registry, make sure to register for classic, timeless items that will go with any d\u00e9cor and will never go out of style. As your style evolves as a new couple, the items you registered for will blend right in.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Con:<\/strong> To add to the first two, if you don\u2019t know exactly what you want or need, a registry may prove to be a waste of time and money.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Con:<\/strong> You may not have a home together, so if you register for items without knowing what <a href=\"https:\/\/www.perfectweddingguide.com\/listing\/keller-williams-realty-jacob-pointer-156049\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">your future home<\/a> will look like, this could be a problem.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Con:<\/strong> Not to mention, items may look a lot different in the store or on the internet than they do in your house or in person.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pro:<\/strong> If there are specific essentials you know you will both need for your new home and new life together a registry can be a life saver.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0500_dh5a5521.jpg\" data-lightbox=\"gal[10397]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9605\" src=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0500_dh5a5521.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"656\" height=\"984\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align:center;\">The MONEY TREE<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pro:<\/strong> Instead of just putting \u201cmoney tree\u201d on your invitation, you can get specific and ask your guests to contribute to one big purchase. For instance, you can ask your guests to contribute to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.perfectweddingguide.com\/wedding-vendors\/honeymoon-venues\/search\/albuquerque,%20new-mexico\/all\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">your honeymoon<\/a>, a down payment on a new home or even a charity. For example, a friend of mine asked guests to contribute to their honeymoon to Scotland. When I received my &#8220;thank you&#8221; in the mail, she included a picture of her and her new hubby on their honeymoon in Scotland.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pro:<\/strong>\u00a0Asking guests to contribute to a money tree for a specific purpose, can help eliminate the chance of receiving an expired basket of sausage and cheese from old aunt Liz.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pro:<\/strong> If you\u2019re not sure what you want, you can save the money until you both figure out how you want to decorate your new home together. Instead of having random stuff (that looks a lot different in your house than it did in the store or on the internet), later on, you will have a nice stash to purchase the things you really want when you\u2019re ready.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pro:<\/strong> Not only will you save yourself time, but you will also save your guests time and money, from having to go out and purchase your registered gift or buying online and paying for shipping.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9611\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9611\" style=\"width: 656px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0527_dh5a5572.jpg\" data-lightbox=\"gal[10397]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9611\" src=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/06\/0527_dh5a5572.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"656\" height=\"438\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9611\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photos by Arielei Kinzer Photography<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">What are your thoughts on creating registries or asking for money? Personally, I can\u2019t think of any cons for a money tree, can you?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align:center;\">For more on everything Wedding + Wedding Planning<a href=\"https:\/\/www.perfectweddingguide.com\/location\/new-mexico\/albuquerque\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7214\" src=\"https:\/\/pwgnm.files.wordpress.com\/2015\/12\/visit_widget1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"143\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As you plan your wedding, you may be wondering whether you should create a registry or ask for money. While both options are beneficial in their own way, the benefits of one far outweigh the other. In fact, in my own experience, the registry proved to be a waste. 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